When we were young...

I met my husband in high school, and by our senior year, we knew we wanted to be together for the rest of our lives. I know it sounds cheesy and cliche, but that's how it worked. I'd planned on starting college in the fall, and so had he, so we had everything lined up. I got my vaccines for college in March of that year.I found out I was pregnant a couple of months before graduation, and we decided just to keep it from the high school drama (of course our parents knew as soon as we did) and we started preparing for a new future. I was still going to school, and we started saving for our own place. At 21 wks, I had an AFP test done for Down's Syndrome. It came back positive and we had to do special ultrasounds and see different doctors, who assured me it was most likely a false positive because the test is supposed to be done between 16 and 19 wks. We were scared, but it didn't matter, I wasn't going to do an amniocentisis just to know for sure. It didn't matter if she was born with Down's Syndrome. She was ours. It. didn't matter

 Fast forward to October 2004, we had a home and Arwynn was here smiling at us, a perfect 7 lb 9oz baby girl. It had been a false positive, so we celebrated her health and ours as well, as the labor was a little difficult. The nurses just fell in love with this little baby who's eyes were open the whole time she was awake, she had a tiny bruise on her forhead, but that's all....she was beautiful, and pink, and perfect. Until we got ready to leave...the nurses had discovered there was no red reflection in her eyes (like when you get red eye from a photo), and this was a problem. We couldn't go home. My husband had to go back to work. But we couldn't go home. My mother and I (thank God I have her) rushed her to the local eye doctor, who in turn sent us to the only Pediatric Opthamologist in our region. (He moved here in July of that year) It was 5 o'clock before we got there, and that man and his wonderful assistant stayed with us intil 7 o'clock that evening, just to check and double check Arwynn and explain everything to me he could. I will never forget that first visit. I think he was sent here for us, for my daughter.

He explained to me Arwynn had congenital catartacts (bilateral), and he gave us the worst case scenario. The blood vessels in her eyes could also be underdeveloped or connected where they shouldn't be in her eyes, but he wouldn't know until the surgery. (What! Surgery, on my newborn baby!?!? Needless to say, on the inside, I was a train wreck.) She could only see light and shadow. My daughter was blind. She needed surgery, surgery that may not help. Turns out, Dr. Carlsen was a pro at this, specialized in this, developed surgical tools and techniques just for this! This man was sent from heaven, for our daughter. His first patient with cataracts in his new home. My mother and I cried all the way home, she blamed herself for Arwynn's condition because she'd been so upset when she found out I was pregnant. She hadn't wanted this. I blamed myself because I'd gotten the Hep B vaccination (not knowing I was pregnant) and I thought I was the cause. I've never been so confused, sad, scared in all my life. Then began the real rollercoaster.......

Arwynn and her daddy, not a baby baby, but I'll try to get those soon!